I highly doubt most of you care that Smith even got arrested, judging from some of the replies I've seen in both threads. Its amusing, let an Alabama player get arrested for nearly the same thing (except it happened with a female), and its a Greek tragedy and heads should roll.
How many will genuinely frown upon anything short of a suspension?
You are assuming many facts not in evidence. Let me recap for you:
1) Most of us are genuinely concerned with the situation and intently interested in how our coaching staff handles the first off-field incident we can remember since Mike Price was briefly your head coach.
2) Most of us would ridicule a dead grandmother if she were wearing Bama attire. It's just a source of amusement for us. We make fun of you because it's easy.
3) There's a whole lot of difference between a guy punching a girl and a guy punching a guy. If you don't believe me, bring your girlfriend on over and let me punch both of you. If she's really, really hot I'll punch you first. In the temple.
4) 90% of what we say is intended to be humorous or to, again, make fun of you (bama fans collectively). But if your girlfriend is, like, really super hot? I might not have been kidding about the punching thing. Send me a photo so I can decide if it fits in the 10% or not.
5) On a serious note? If Smith is not suspended, providing that an investigation into his behavior shows wrongdoing on his part, the vast majority of us will be greatly disappointed and I dare say what confidence we have in Chizik would wane. In that respect we are not like you.