I would tend to agree with you a little, and with Dye a little bit, as I think he's really saying it's tougher on Auburn. BUT, it's possible, like you say. I think Auburn just has to work harder, and every once in a while those efforts are not rewarded as highly, but hard work will get it done more often than not.
I agree with JR. I also agree with those who say that kids don't care about tradition.
That said, those kids are very much influenced by the media and the media is why Auburn has to work harder to succeed. Media coverage affects the kids in Alabama a little differently than those outside Alabama, but both groups see more Alabama coverage than Auburn.
The majority of the fans in Alabama are fans of bama and, thus, most media coverage in-state is geared towards those fans. This has the natural result of marginalizing Auburn, as there is less coverage, and the in-state kids are predisposed to attend bama due to their heightened awareness of the school.
Assuming that the kids outside Alabama get their sports info from a national source, ESPN, they are subjected to an agenda-driven propaganda machine. ESPN has displayed its power and influence by hyping up the BCS National Championship Game up to a month prior to the game's participants being identified. ESPN virtually picks the matchup it desires in order to maximize revenue. Auburn was a problem for ESPN in 2004 because it had already declared (In November) that the USC/OU matchup will be the greatest game ever played. To ensure that the public outcry was limited to Auburn fans, ESPN campaigned against Auburn to justify its position. When the dust settled, Auburn was declared second rate and not worthy of a spot at the table. Remember the old adage of never starting a war with someone who buys ink in 50 gallon drums?
As for more airtime on ESPN, it's become clear that the network has bought into celebrity-style reporting on the coaches. A good storyline will get more coverage (Saban's travelling past; his gruff attitude) over a consistently successful coach who rarely gives cause for much uproar (outside of the toothless crimson masses).
All told, Auburn can stand on even par with any program in the nation, but that doesn't mean that we won't have to work harder to get there.