I see your point about trying to keep it private because of it being more of an adult oriented board. I can agree with that. However, how do you guarantee that anybody that registers is over 18? You can't, but at least you are trying to control it by making people register. Then again, those on this board may be over 18, but that does not mean we have the mindset of an adult.....Steve.
We do as good of a job as can be expected, short of having members provide a credit card for verification.
Hey...that's not a bad idea...
Anyway, we have any new member check a box that says they are over 18 and understand the rules of the board. If someone under 18 lies about their age, it's on them. Most people who don't like the tone or language usually find out that this isn't the place for them within their first 5 minutes of browsing the site. It's ok, we understand that our brand isn't for everyone. It's worked out well for everyone so far, and I wouldn't have it any other way...
...except maybe you guys providing me with your credit card info.