I think Oklahoma is the prize. Slive needs to work Pickens and if he gets OSU interested Oklahoma will listen too. Still I don't think Oklahoma wants any part of the SEC unless they feel backed into a corner. They see the PAC 12 as their safety net should things start looking grim.
I actually like A&M in its entirety as a program but I don't like any of the eastern schools as an equal for the Aggies but FSU is probably the best choice. I like Mizzou but not w/o Oklahoma. I wouldn't mind Auburn moving to the SEC East if Oklahoma agreed and it doesn't matter about all of the panic about the rivalries (especially the IB) as all of that can be worked out to suit us.
But drawing A&M to get the Sooners is a game I like.. although it comes with some added baggage, (OSU) but I think its middle of the pack baggage at worst. If it strengthens the conference to compete in the future against the other conferences then it's a no brainer. I think Slive got a good read on the situation last year. It wouldn't surprise me if Perry had some company with him in Birmingham.