Does it really fucking matter?
The whole idea is to thank those that have served and are currently serving. I appreciate all members of our armed forces be they alive or dead, for without them I would not be able post on an internet message board.
Potato...Potato
It may not matter to you, or some others, but that's not the whole idea. It's a day to honor those that lost their lives. Pardon me for splitting hairs, but sacrificing one's time to serve, in peace or in combat, is a fuck load short of the sacrifice of
fucking dying while doing so! JMHO, YMMV.
I'm not putting down vets, or saying don't thank them. Do!
But Memorial Day is for those that gave all!