It does.
You can't.
It's offensive enough to expel a girl from college for saying it.
I'm drawing a distinction on the context, not on their color or upbringing.
If our new AD gets fired for saying "I love how I act like I love white people because I FUCKING HATE CRACKERS!!!", I'd be ok with that. If he gets fired for saying "Could you please pass the saltines? I like putting my oysters on crackers," I would not be ok with that.
Why is this hard?
I know why.
This is the dumbest argument you've made in a long, long time. Your comparison is so ridiculous that it doesn't even bear examination.
It's not hard. That's what you're failing to see. You can either call somebody a niggra or you can't. If you can, then Jay-Z, Snoop, Dre, Cube, DMX, Nas, Diddy, Nelly, Ice, Chris Rock, Richard Pryor, the sorority ho and every irate driver in the South are all okay. If you can't, then they're not. I've never liked the double standard.
Not going to engage you on it any further.