Couple of things.
"War is over"? Been over for a long, long time. Was over when Bush said it was over. Everything since has just been reconstruction. Like Civil War reconstruction. Saying it's "over" now is a dick sucking political move.
4500 troops were killed. Perspective please. We need a fucking assload of it here.
4500 is about 1/10th the number of men who died in three days at Gettysburg.
116,000 died in World War One
405,000 in WWII
6800 US soldiers (and 22,000 Japanese) died in a little over 30 days at Iwo Jima
We lost 35,000 in Korea and about 60,000 in Vietnam (still about the same as three days at Gettysburg)
Almost as many Americans died in five hours on 9/11 than in this entire war.
In terms of lives lost, this war is about on par with Philippine–American War which lasted 15 years and started in 1898. Ever heard of it?
Not trivializing the death of American soldiers by any stretch of the imagination but as wars go, this is barely a blip. From the coverage it has received, however, you'd think we've been under siege and this is the most horrific event ever witnessed by mankind.
Let's get some more perspective:
11,000 people were killed by drunk drivers in 2008 alone. More than twice as many as in the entire Iraq "war"
About as many people die from (allegedly) smoking per year as in the entire Iraq "war"
Obesity allegedly causes 300,000 deaths per year in the US. That's 67 Iraq wars per year.
Maybe I'm cynical, but all the posturing over the heavy price paid seems out of bounds to me. And before you start in with the "each life" argument I'd like to note that one of the 4500 killed was a former student of mine, a bright kid who I liked a lot. It hurts me to think that his wife and kids are deprived of him because of this.