Went to a wedding at Wolf Mountain Winery in Dahlonega, GA.Stayed in a cabin with a bunch of folks. It seems to be pretty much what you're looking for. A less touristy Gatlinburg.
Helen, GA is always nice. They often have something going on too.
Where was the shower held?
Biltmore House in Cherokee, NC
Did they move it from Asheville? BTW - The casino in Cherokee is pretty decent.