I am on his side. How dare she use him to get pregnant without his knowledge - and after haivng sex in such a way as to specifically prevent pregnancy!! - and then sue for child support!!! Holy shit!!
If you want a baby, FINE - but if he didn't screw you in the biblical sense, leave him out of it. And then to get all weepy and say a five year old is being damaged because her father doesn't want her... lady, that child was damaged the minute you spit the sperm into a ziploc bag.
I hope he beats her to hell and back.
The fact that a judge actually ruled the sperm was an irrevocable gift... good grief. What happens when he takes a dump on her floor? Can she keep that too?